Islands in a Dream
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Who is Daddy? (Part 3)
Who is Daddy? (Part 1)
Who is Daddy? (Part 2)
A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his girl: acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him, she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it does not matter. To him, she is beautiful.
Despite the very loving nature of this relationship, it is possible for a Daddy to satisfy his sadistic nature. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism, while understanding and feeding their girl’s masochism. This balance is often necessary to many girls, because it allows all parts of her to be nourished. This helps lead to an incredibly fulfilling relationship. Most dominants take on the role of a male authority figure in their submissive’s life, and they use their power to enrich that life. The relationship between a Daddy and his girl embodies this dynamic, and it adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that its participants crave.
There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy. Perhaps, it is something only a little girl can understand.
Reblogged from mlleaurore
Daddy comforts his most treasured possession. She comes to him needing his strength and acceptance. She finds safety enveloped in Daddy’s arms and love in the shadows of his protection. Daddy knows all she needs, and he loves her unconditionally. She finds the peace and freedom for which she hungers.
Who is Daddy? (Part 2)
The love between a Daddy and his girl would not be possible without respect. He needs to feel pride in his little girl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him, taking great pains to increase its value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man, and, yet, she chooses to be with him. He knows that this makes consistent discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for his little girl to trust completely, she must know he means what he says.
If his girl is going to be the best she can possibly be, he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his intimate knowledge of her to provide her with the proper direction and discipline, when the need arises. If he does not enforce discipline and do so consistently, this respect becomes tenuous. If his girl finds that she can manipulate him, she begins to lose respect, and his ability to empower her is impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone she does not respect. This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength, will, and discipline on his part to be her confidant, her guide, and her anchor, to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms, and to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined. Without her trust and respect, he knows he will lose his hold on her.
